Last night, Human Rights Campaign
Foundation's first national »Time to THRIVE«
conference promoting safety, inclusion and well-being for LGBTQ youth kicked off at Bally's Hotel and Casino in Las Vegas. Its goal is to engage a broad audience of youth-serving professionals, including K-12 educators, mental health providers, pediatricians, religious leaders, recreational athletic coaches, and youth development staff at places like Boys and Girls Clubs and YMCAs. The event also provides a "one-stop-shop" opportunity for these professionals to build awareness and cultural competency, learn current and emerging best practices, and gather resources from leading experts and national organizations in the field.
Special guest Ellen Page made a big announcement on stage by coming out publicly in a powerful, emotional speech which was later viewed more than a half-million times within the first 12 hours on YouTube
. A full transcript is available after the jump.
» Human Rights Campaign - Time to Thrive Conference (02/14/2014) «
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Hello! Wow. Thank you.
Thank you Chad, for those kind words and for the even kinder work that you and the Human Rights Campaign Foundation do every dayespecially on behalf of the lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender young people here and across America.
Its such an honor to be here at the inaugural Time to THRIVE conference. But its a little weird, too. Here I am, in this room because of an organization whose work I deeply admire. And Im surrounded by people who make it their lifes work to make other peoples lives better profoundly better. Some of you teach young peoplepeople like me. Some of you help young people heal and to find their voice. Some of you listen. Some of you take action. Some of you are young people yourselves
in which case, its even weirder for a person like me to be speaking to you.
Its weird because here I am, an actress, representingat least in some sensean industry that places crushing standards on all of us. Not just young people, but everyone. Standards of beauty. Of a good life. Of success. Standards that, I hate to admit, have affected me. You have ideas planted in your head, thoughts you never had before, that tell you how you have to act, how you have to dress and who you have to be. I have been trying to push back, to be authentic, to follow my heart, but it can be hard.
But thats why Im here. In this room, all of you, all of us, can do so much more together than any one person can do alone. And I hope that thought bolsters you as much as it does me. I hope the workshops youll go to over the next few days give you strength. Because I can only imagine that there are dayswhen youve worked longer hours than your boss realizes or cares about, just to help a kid you know can make it. Days where you feel completely alone. Undermined. Or hopeless.
I know there are people in this room who go to school every day and get treated like shit for no reason. Or you go home and you feel like you cant tell your parents the whole truth about yourself. Beyond putting yourself in one box or another, you worry about the future. About college or work or even your physical safety. Trying to create that mental picture of your lifeof what on earth is going to happen to youcan crush you a little bit every day. It is toxic and painful and deeply unfair.
Sometimes its the little, insignificant stuff that can tear you down. I try not to read gossip as a rule, but the other day a website ran an article with a picture of me wearing sweatpants on the way to the gym. The writer asked, Why does [this] petite beauty insist upon dressing like a massive man?
Because I like to be comfortable. There are pervasive stereotypes about masculinity and femininity that define how we are all supposed to act, dress and speak. They serve no one. Anyone who defies these so-called norms becomes worthy of comment and scrutiny. The LGBT community knows this all too well.
Yet there is courage all around us. The football hero, Michael Sam. The actress, Laverne Cox. The musicians Tegan and Sara Quinn. The family that supports their daughter or son who has come out. And there is courage in this room. All of you.
Im inspired to be in this room because every single one of you is here for the same reason.
Youre here because youve adopted as a core motivation the simple fact that this world would be a whole lot better if we just made an effort to be less horrible to one another. If we took just 5 minutes to recognize each others beauty, instead of attacking each other for our differences. Thats not hard. Its really an easier and better way to live. And ultimately, it saves lives.
Then again, its not easy at all. It can be the hardest thing, because loving other people starts with loving ourselves and accepting ourselves. I know many of you have struggled with this. I draw upon your strength and your support, and have, in ways you will never know.
Im here today because I am gay. And because
maybe I can make a difference. To help others have an easier and more hopeful time. Regardless, for me, I feel a personal obligation and a social responsibility.
I also do it selfishly, because I am tired of hiding and I am tired of lying by omission. I suffered for years because I was scared to be out. My spirit suffered, my mental health suffered and my relationships suffered. And Im standing here today, with all of you, on the other side of all that pain. I am young, yes, but what I have learned is that love, the beauty of it, the joy of it and yes, even the pain of it, is the most incredible gift to give and to receive as a human being. And we deserve to experience love fully, equally, without shame and without compromise.
There are too many kids out there suffering from bullying, rejection, or simply being mistreated because of who they are. Too many dropouts. Too much abuse. Too many homeless. Too many suicides. You can change that and you are changing it.
But you never needed me to tell you that. Thats why this was a little bit weird. The only thing I can really say is what Ive been building up to for the past five minutes. Thank you. Thank for inspiring me. Thank you for giving me hope, and please keep changing the world for people like me.
Happy Valentine's Day. I love you.